If so, where are they?
By Latricia Buckner
For the St. Louis American
My question is simple. Do men DATE anymore? If they do, where are they? Because I’m tired of guys inviting me over to watch TV at their house, like that’s a real date. Let’s go out, do something. It just seems to me like everybody’s cool with just hanging out at the house, which I don’t mind, but all the time? Where do I find men who like to go out and have fun?
– Frustrated with Dating
Interestingly enough I get this question quite a bit. Here’s the thing, people are attracted to people who are passionately living life. With that said, I know that women dig men who know how to plan a great date (hint, fellas). However, if you want to get off the couch, then … get off the couch!
What are your interests, passions and hobbies? Make a list of three art/cultural events or activities that you would like to attend each week. When making plans with your dates, invite them to these events. If they accept, then great, you have gotten them off the couch and have the opportunity to really get to know someone who has similar interests.
If your date declines, no problem. Go to these events with your girlfriends or even by yourself. You may just find yourself meeting men who are as equally passionate about life as you are, and that could mean the end of couch dating for you!
Be Blessed, live free and love more,
Latricia Buckner
www.latriciabuckner.com