Lathon and Chalana Ferguson, co-founders of Marriage MasterMYnds, LLC say the mission of their organization is to uplift the Black family and, consequently, the Black community, by “strengthening marriages and families, one couple at a time.” The goal is to support married couples, intimate partners, and individuals through educational programs, social events, and resources to provide strategies to work toward the shared goals of a thriving relationship.
They will host their third annual Black Love Matters Brunch on Sunday, February 16, 2025, from 12 pm- 4 pm at the Sheraton Westport Chalet Hotel. Guests will enjoy live musical entertainment, a full buffet brunch, a mimosa reception in partnership with Uncle Nearest Premium Whiskey, a cash bar, and special gifts.
The couple respects and embraces all love – however, Black love is very special to them. It represents the ability to prevail and endure as a people. According to Chalana Black love is anchored in being Black unapologetically in a society that still tries to force the Black community into invisibility. She points to history for her example, recounting how enslaved families were divided – and marriages were not legally recognized.
“We celebrate the beauty of what is when we come together in love,” Chalana said. “As scripture tells us, ‘Love never fails.’ And even when the enemy surfaces, when equipped with love – a strong intense Black Love that stands the test of time – we will win.”
From Lathan’s perspective, love means unconditional support, trust and honesty, emotional support, and mutual respect. He says Black love builds on these aspects and characteristics and includes love for cultural heritage, community, and family.
Marriage MasterMYnds seeks to promote the well-being of the relationships they help counsel – which is critical to their mission. The rationale is that the Black community must be independent to achieve and produce excellence in professional environments and communities.
Their event is held during February to highlight Black History Month, Black Love Day, and Valentine’s Day and honor the spirit of love and celebration. At the brunch they will present The Legacy of Love Award. Couples in the region who exemplify Black Love and excellence through their individual and collective achievements in family, professional endeavors, and contributions to the St. Louis community will receive the honor.
“Black love is the foundation of the Black community,” said Lathon. “How can we build and maintain community connections if we don’t have strong family connections? We know that it ‘takes a village,’ but if we don’t love ourselves, our heritage, and our culture then we won’t love the village – which means we won’t pour into the village.”
Marriage MasterMYnds was formed in 2016, after the celebration of the couple’s 16th anniversary. The Fergusons decided to use their story as inspiration for other couples to help them reach longevity. Along the way, they identified couples around them that provided mentorship to them that would help them during those tough times.
During the pandemic, the Fergusons had reached a milestone in their marriage celebrating 20 years together. They invited couples to a retreat in Branson where they say God showed them the vision of Marriage MasterMynds. They had done some programs and events in the past, but at that moment, when the world stopped, it became clear that it was about a greater purpose for them to lean into their gift of bringing people together in spaces that breed authenticity, vulnerability, transparency, and love.
From there, many asked when they would do more and the “Black Love Matters Movement” of Marriage MasterMYnds was born.
“It has truly been a process over these 25 years,” Lathon said. “We have experienced growth, unconditional support, and endurance, understanding that it is a marathon and not a sprint. We learned that it is important to give ourselves and each other grace. Which is easier said than done.”
Chalana shares her husband’s sentiments.
“We have evolved as individuals and as a couple,” Chalana said. “Being open to discovering what could be instead of being resistant to change has offered breakthroughs. We have learned to overcome our egos and find common ground for the greater good of us, while also establishing boundaries that allow us to remain true to ourselves.”
The couple hopes guests will be motivated and inspired to invest in their relationships, through commitment, growth, and love.
Black Love Matters Brunch, Presented by Midwest BankCentre. As they are the Presenting Sponsor. Marriage MasterMYnds, LLC 3rd Annual Black Love Matters Brunch will take place on Sunday, February 16, 2025, from 12 pm- 4 pm at the Sheraton Westport Chalet Hotel. Visit www.marriagemastermynds.com to purchase tickets to the Black Love Matters Brunch and for more information about Marriage MasterMYnds. Email info@marriagemastermynds.com for information on tables and sponsorship opportunities.