Are you single and finding that married men or women are attracted to you and your single lifestyle?
Maybe you are in a mood where it appears that only married men are noticing you, and they are coming on strong?
You are not alone. This has happened to me. All I have to say is, “NO.”
When it comes to people who have made the commitment to be in a relationship with someone else, they should stick to their vows. Stick to their agreement. They need to stay in their pond they created and swim together.
Don’t get me wrong, I feel that a relationship – especially marriage – can be a beautiful thing. When a person is with the one they have chosen, nothing should come between their bond of unity.
However, I am not talking about that type of bond. I am speaking on those sneaking sly ones that can’t keep still. You know, the ones who want to be up in everything with everybody except the one they have waiting at the crib.
I am speaking about the ones that always make plans with the boys, and not their woman. I have something to say to you all: Married men, DO NOT APPLY. STAY HOME.
Not only that, to my singles, if you are in a secretive relationship with someone that you know is married – CUT IT OFF. CUT HIM OR HER LOOSE.
If they try to come back around after you have given them the boot and closed that chapter, give them the “you so crazy” look and be done.
There are still some really good men and women in our city that are single, available and looking to meet. With all that people have going on anyway, the last thing a single person needs is to be cluttered with the goings on, games and insecurities of someone that is already attached.
Please, let’s not even get into the never-ending discussion of “will they ever leave?” The truth of that matter is if you are not who they are married to, then it really is not any of your business if they do or don’t leave.
With that being said let’s get back to what is our business, and that’s connecting on a physical, spiritual and intimate level with someone who is available.
It is when you know that you have been through a few things, have had some ups and downs and been left with a few scars. Such is life.
You deserve to be loved and treated right. It’s time for your new beginning – to look ahead to your future and not back toward your past.
Get into you so that you can progress and move forward. It’s knowing that you need the comfort of that special someone. This may require you to release that feeling of embarrassment or of vulnerability when you do open yourself to someone new.
Being real with yourself on what you want, need, and deserve is the only way to make it happen.
