If I get one more letter from a broken-hearted chick telling me she met this phyne guy with a decent income but he won’t act right, I’m going to laugh out loud. First of all sisters, phyne brothers and paid brothers get divorced all the time. Your ticket to happiness isn’t necessarily a phyne rich brother – or sister, for that matter. Second, stop going after men that you know are out of your league. Stop up-dating! Be honest with yourself. If you know you’re a seven, seven and half at the most, grab you a seven or eight. Don’t go after a 10. Most of the time you won’t win. But if you do snatch a 10, keep in mind that you stepped out of your league and anything is possible. And if you’re out there sleeping around with every phyne man you meet, don’t be surprised, hurt or shocked when you find out you ain’t the only one he’s sleeping with. This information could be found at his doorstep, your neighbor’s doorstep, or on the steps leading to the STD clinic. Be careful out there, have fun, but get to know people for who they are – not just what they look like.