Scripture tells us in James 1:12: “Blessed is the man who perseveres under trial, because when he has stood the test, he will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those who love him.”
The difference between a victim and victor is nothing more than outlook. It’s about our perspective, our focus and, ultimately, our desire.
Years ago, I heard a story about two brothers who grew up in the same household, but they had totally different perspectives. The two brothers endured extreme abuse at the hands of their father.
The father not only abused the boys, but he also was a batterer, striking their mother down incessantly without conscience. Mom vowed to stick around to keep the family unit together. She succeeded in keeping the family physically together despite years of personal sacrifice and trauma.
When the two boys grew up, one whose foundation was faith attended an Ivy League school, married his high school sweetheart, and by all accounts, was able to intellectually, psychologically and emotionally actualize.
The other, whose foundation was faulty, spent time in and out of jail, married and, unfortunately, became a batterer.
When the two brothers were asked the question why did you turn out the way that you did, they remarkably had the same answer: “Look at my father; what did you expect?”
It is obvious that one brother demonstrated incredible resilience and chose to live life to its fullest. He chose to view life through the lens in which God saw him and not let his upbringing, his past or present circumstance dictate his future.
As I reflected on this story, it reminded me in one way of the thousands of families throughout our region who make the choice every day to be a victor. Many are struggling with life’s pressures, but keep in perspective their purpose. They have chosen to manage the stress of a bad economy by helping others and growing nearer to friends and loved ones.
They are using this time to reflect on how to be better. They are equipping themselves with new strategies and tactics that will enable them to be victorious in the long run. They view their personal journey not as one riddled with problems but as one filled with promise. They revel in the opportunity to be a light in a dark world. They are victors!
Orvin Kimbrough is senior vice president of Major Gifts and Planned Giving at United Way of Greater St. Louis. He has masters degrees in Social Work, Business and Theology.
Bread from Heaven
Prophet Brian Carn of Jacksonville, FL and Dr. Jamal Bryant, pastor of the fastest-growing church in the A.M.E. faith, will speak at C.R. LEE Ministry’s conference at 7 p.m. July 16-17 at Mt. Gideon Church, 6505 Etzel Ave. in University City. The theme is “Bread from Heaven”.
Both evenings will culminate with praise, worship, prayers and sermons from Carn and Bryant.
“This year, we proclaim deliverance, healing and encouragement as God establishes His plan for the body of Christ in this region,” said Min. Carlton R. Lee Jr., founder of C.R. LEE Ministry
For more information, email crleeministries@yahoo.com or call 314-322-9468.
Celebration Choir concert
The Celebration Choir of Christ Our Redeemer AME Church will present its 15th annual concert at 3 p.m. Sunday, July 19. The church is located at 13820 Old Jamestown Road in Black Jack. The choir will sing “until Heaven gets the news.”
The Rev. Edmund E. Lowe is Sr. Pastor, Sister Carolyn Hunter is choir director and Sister Ella Coe is president. For information, call 314-741-4222.